Alia asked if younger men really want structure. After explaining this hypothesis is from years of personal experience, I conferred with my younger man, D-Tox. He confirmed my hypothesis is accurate for and applicable to him and his friends.
D-Tox and I concluded possible reasons that young men prefer older women. My analysis from interviewing close to 100 males aged 22-29, is that typically males have been emotionally harmed between high school and college. By the time we get them, they are recovering. Young men crave structure, because girls their ages are not emotionally equipped to provide the nurture and support we can.
Again, the most important thing to remember is that these tips only apply to men not boys.