How do I get a younger man?

D-Tox was about half my age when we met. It happened so quickly that we use the day we met as our dating anniversary. Women often ask me how to get a younger man. The answer is so simple, you probably do not want to read or accept it. Be yourself.

First, never settle! That is the most important rule to being happy.

Second, be yourself. Any man worth having is intelligent. As such, he can see through nonsense. Would you want to be with someone who was to dumb to understand maturity?

Third, even though you will not settle, you must recognize differences between men and boys. Age is a number that means nothing. Mentality is what determines manhood.

You want someone who can take care of himself but appreciates what you do for him and yourself. As I was flat ironing my hair, probably the second hour into it, D-Tox stared at me. He said, “Baby, I want to thank you. I did not realize all of the things women do to look and feel good. You do not need to do those things, and I appreciate all you go through to get ready for us to go out tonight and every night.” He continued to stare in amazement. You may be asking, “Where can I get me one of those?!” Trust me when I say I kissed a lot of frogs to find my prince. Now that he is here, I would not trade him for anything. He appreciates everything about me — even my flaws. He recognizes I am independent and self-maintained, but he still is there to take care of me.

On a side note, he does have a single, older brother. If you like young, black men with good jobs, senses of responsibility, and decent builds, contact me for an introduction.

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